Passive
living: Steps to change 6 - October 10, 2006
Out
of all the people you’ve known or interacted with, whom
have you respected the most? Why?
What
kind of behavior (passive, assertive, or aggressive) did
he or she exhibit when interacting with you and others?
Passive can
be described as:
Super
nice
Agreeable
Timid
Uncomfortable
Don’t
stand up for themselves
Would
do anything for anyone, all the time
Never
say “no”
Apologetic
Quiet
Easy
to manipulate
Self-effacing
Poor
or nonexistent boundaries
Perceived
as being wishy-washy
Don’t
command respect
Rigid,
inflexible
Judgmental
Assertive can
be described as:
Pleasant
yet balanced
Unafraid
to voice their opinions
Always
stand up for themselves
Confident
Comfortable
You
know exactly what’s on their mind
Balance “yes” with “no”
Difficult
to manipulate
Balance
listening with speaking
Have
a fair appreciation of their strengths and weaknesses
Healthy
boundaries
Perceived
as being independent yet fair and understanding
Command
respect
Balanced
expectations
Healthy
flexibility
Accepting
Aggressive can
be described as:
Overbearing
Harsh
Only
their opinions and perspectives matter
Boisterous
You
always hear what’s on their mind
Like
to manipulate
Do
most of the talking
Have
an inflated view of themselves
Unhealthy
boundaries, they trample on other’s boundaries
Not
respected
Unrealistic
expectations
Inflexible,
rigid
Intolerant
This
week, we’d like to get your opinion on the above.
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Have
a great week.
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you are having difficulty
in any of the following areas: Boundaries, Self-esteem, Perfectionism,
High Expectations, Living Passively, Relationships, Worry,
Negativity, Performanced-based Self-Worth, Communication, Emotional
Reasoning, Time Management, Guilt, Shame,
Forgiveness, Thought Management, Abuse, Over Responsibility,
Catastrophic Thinking, Critical Thinking, Stress Management,
People-Pleasing, Anger Management, or Sleep Disorder,
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