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You are the only "YOU" on earth - 3 - January 24, 2007

Each one of us is:

  • Unique
  • A one of a kind
  • A work in progress
  • Imperfect

Yes, all of us are imperfect. Each of us has our unique blend of pluses and minuses.

From your work last week, you may have discovered some things about yourself that surprised and/or pleasantly pleased you. You also may have a clearer appreciation of your pluses and minuses. Hopefully, you have a better understanding of what makes you truly unique.

While striving to be the best that you can be is an admirable and even healthy goal, striving for perfection is a vain and futile effort. The best that you can hope for is that you learn to appreciate your uniqueness and work to become the best “you” that you can be.

“You are something new in this world. Never before, since the beginning of time, has there ever been anybody exactly like you; and never again throughout all the ages to come will there ever be anybody exactly like you again.” – Dale Carnegie

Poet, Douglas Malloch, wrote:

If you can’t be a pine on the top of the hill,
Be a scrub in the valley–but be
The Best little scrub by the side of the rill;
Be a bush, if you can’t be a tree.

If you can’t be a bush, be a bit of the grass,
And some highway happier make;
If you can’t be a muskie, then just be a bass–
But the liveliest bass in the lake!

We can’t all be captains, we’ve got to be crew,
There’s something for all of us here.
There’s big work to do and there’s lesser to do
And the task we must do is the near.

If you can’t be a highway, then just be a trail,
If you can’t be the sun, be a star;
It isn’t by size that you win or you fail–
Be the best of whatever you are!

Discovering your uniqueness is an important step towards living a happy and contented life. The next step is living out of your uniqueness.

“No matter what happens, always be yourself.” – Dale Carnegie

This week: Be you. Live you! Be the best “you” that you can be. See how that fits. See how that feels.


If you are having difficulty in any of the following areas: Boundaries, Self-esteem, Perfectionism, High Expectations, Living Passively, Relationships, Worry, Negativity, Performanced-based Self-Worth, Communication, Emotional Reasoning, Time Management, Guilt, Shame, Forgiveness, Thought Management, Abuse, Over Responsibility, Catastrophic Thinking, Critical Thinking, Stress Management, People-Pleasing, Anger Management, or Sleep Disorder, you may want to consider contacting one of our personal coaches. They are experienced in helping people resolve these types of issues. For more information on Personal Coaching, click here.

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